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Escort Terminology: A Full Guide with Key Definitions
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Escort Terminology: A Full Guide with Key Definitions

Discover the specialized language of the escorting world with this comprehensive lexicon designed to demystify the jargon for newcomers.

A Beginner’s Guide to Escort Terminology: A Handy Lexicon for the Curious

The world of escorts can feel complex and intimidating for newcomers, filled with specialized jargon used to describe services, preferences, and boundaries in a discreet and coded manner. This terminology serves to clarify expectations and conditions while maintaining a level of subtlety.

Whether you’re curious or simply wish to better understand this industry, here’s a comprehensive lexicon designed to guide you through the commonly used terms:


Escort Terminology: Definitions

Escort Overview

  • Escort: An escort is a person who offers companionship services in exchange for payment, typically in a private setting. Escort services can vary widely, depending on the client's preferences, and may include social interactions, leisure activities, and sometimes sexual services. However, not all escorts provide sexual services. The term "escort" can also refer to someone who accompanies a client to social events, dinners, or travel, often in the role of a companion or confidant. Escorts may operate independently or work through specialized agencies.

Service Types

  • Incall: The client visits the escort at her designated location (e.g., home or apartment).
  • Outcall: The escort visits the client’s chosen location, such as a hotel or residence.
  • Overnight: Services provided for an extended period, usually overnight.
  • Half-hour (HH): A session lasting 30 minutes.
  • Full-hour (FH): A session lasting one hour.
  • Quickie: A brief session focused on speed and efficiency.

Intimacy and Interaction

  • Kissing & Intimacy

  • FK (French Kiss): Kissing on the mouth.

  • DFK (Deep French Kiss): Passionate open-mouth kissing with tongue.

  • LFK (Light French Kiss): Gentle open-mouth kissing without tongue involvement.

  • Kissing if there’s good chemistry: Kissing is allowed based on mutual comfort.

  • Oral & Related Services

  • BBBJ (Bare Back Blow Job): Oral sex without a condom.

  • CBJ (Covered Blow Job): Oral sex with a condom.

  • Deep Throat: Oral sex with deep penetration of the throat.

  • CIM (Cum In Mouth): The client ejaculates in the escort’s mouth.

  • CIMWS (Cum In Mouth With Swallowing): The escort swallows the ejaculation after it occurs.

  • COB (Cum On Body): The client ejaculates on the escort’s body.

  • COF (Cum On Face): The client ejaculates on the escort’s face.

  • Licking and sucking balls: Oral stimulation of the testicles.


Penetrative Services

  • Vaginal & Anal Services
  • FS (Full Service): Vaginal intercourse.
  • A-Level / Anal: Anal intercourse included.
  • Greek: A euphemism for anal intercourse.
  • Rimming (or AR, Anal Rimming): Licking or stimulating the anus.
  • Double Penetration: Simultaneous penetration in two areas.
  • Fisting: Insertion of a hand into the vagina or anus.
  • Intercrural sex: Non-penetrative sex using the thighs.

Client Experience Styles

  • GFE (Girlfriend Experience): A service simulating an affectionate relationship, often with kissing, cuddling, and personal intimacy.
  • PSE (Porn Star Experience): A service mimicking the behavior of a porn star, often involving explicit acts.
  • Sensual full-body massage: A massage with intimate and arousing techniques.
  • Erotic massage: A massage designed to stimulate sexual pleasure.

Fetishes and Preferences

  • Specific Preferences
  • DATY (Dining At The Y): The client performs cunnilingus on the escort.
  • MSOG (Multiple Shots On Goal): The client is allowed multiple ejaculations during the session.
  • Fetish play: Engaging in specific preferences or kinks, such as role-playing or costumes.
  • Dominatrix (soft): Light BDSM activities where the escort takes a dominant role.
  • Dominatrix (hard): Intense BDSM activities requiring more experience.
  • Snowballing: Sharing ejaculate during a kiss.

Safety & Boundaries

  • Protected Services: All acts are conducted using condoms or other protective measures.
  • No BBFS (No Bare Back Full Service): No unprotected vaginal or anal sex.
  • Screening: A process to verify the identity and reliability of clients.

Enhancements and Additional Services

  • Striptease/Lapdance: A private dance to arouse.
  • Shower service: Activities during or involving a shower.
  • Foam massage: A sensual massage performed with soap or foam.
  • Tantric: Sexual or sensual techniques to enhance pleasure.
  • Outdoor Sex: Sexual activities conducted outdoors.
  • Private photos/videos: Custom, personalized content created for a client.

Miscellaneous Terms

  • Toys: Use of sex toys during a session for added pleasure.
  • Sex in Different Positions: Engaging in sexual activity in various physical positions beyond the basic missionary.
  • Handjob: Manual stimulation of the penis.
  • Prostate Massage: A massage stimulating the prostate gland.
  • Golden Shower (Giving/Receiving): Urination on or by a partner, often as a fetish.
  • Facesitting: The act of sitting on someone’s face, typically for oral sex.
  • Squirting: The act of a woman ejaculating fluid during sexual arousal or orgasm.
  • Strap-On Play: Use of a strap-on dildo for pegging or anal play.
  • Gangbang: A sexual activity involving multiple individuals and one person.

Final Thoughts

This lexicon is a practical tool to help you better understand the terminology, language, and expressions used in the escort industry. Whether you're here out of curiosity, for education, or seeking guidance, knowing these escort-related terms will help clarify the nuanced communication and expectations within this space.

If there are additional terms, concepts, or specific details you’d like to explore, feel free to ask!

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